I have to admit: pretty excited to read my comments on a team article in my favorite professional magazine, Harvard Business Review.
Next up: writing and publishing my book on the Power of Teams !
my thoughts and a bit of experience on working with teams, learning and knowledge management, and management in general ...
I recently experienced this is an interesting way. A large group of people is asked to walk around in a room, and interact with the others (eye contact, saying "hello"). The team members at first get simple instructions (start, stop, call out your name, clap ...) but these get more and more complex (when hearing "clap", say out your name, and "stop" means start). At the start there was a buzz when people walked around and interacted with the others in the room. In only a few minutes' time, the buzz disappeared, eyes were focusing on the floor, and each member of the group was spending all the energy on complying with the complex instructions. No energy was left to spend on interacting with the others in the room.
I recently had a discussion with a manager as part of a leadership development program. This manager was well known by most around him as someone who just talks too much. Telling others what to do rather than finding out what they think. Using up air time that belongs to others (including answering questions that are asked to them). Never keeping this concise and just keeping on talking. This behavior is so obvious that it bothers everyone around him. He is otherwise a capable, hard-working and motivated young manager, but most around him just conclude there is no way he can change the way he is.![]() |
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Brainstorming is very intense. Energy is high. Participants think hard to come up with a brilliant idea waiting their turn ... and hoping that nobody else will have the same idea ! Nothing worse in a brainstorming session than to have your neighbor steal the idea you were about to share !
An organization's leadership development program is very much like a car. If you skip the program for a year, nothing major will happen. People will not start to leave in droves. And you will most likely not be faced with an acute shortage of leaders. All seems well ... If you intend to come back to the original program the year after, doubt will have started to creep in ... Is this program really necessary ? Nobody seems to be able to identify any damage from skipping it last year ... And it did help us to save XYZ US$ ! The argument for restarting becomes even more harder. All of the sudden the investment in people becomes a new burden, since we managed without last year.
"I have come to realize that, if you are pushed often enough out of your comfort zone, you can actually get used to it."
When you become a manager, it's for a reason. You have performed, you have solved problems. You have found answers and implemented solutions successfully. So when people come to you with their issues or problems, you want to help them, let them benefit from your experience, and give them the answers. And they happily go away and implement your solution. And very often, the problems are indeed solved. And when it doesn't work, they will come back and ask for better solutions. This creates a feeling of empowerment ... for the manager, and a team that is completely dependent on him or her. When the manager is ready to move to a new assignment a number of years later, the conclusion is often that "nobody in the team is ready to take on my role". Help your team to develop by making them think for themselves. Giving the answers doesn't do that.
If not the HR department, then it most likely is the direct manager. After all, it is him or her who will evaluate you and identify your "growth opportunities". These will then be discussed and prioritized and at the end of the performance review, your manager will add your name to the list of the people who need to be trained in this or that. And that is in the best case. Quite often the "growth opportunities" are pushed down the list or urgencies or priorities once the review fever has subsided.
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